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The Devil Next Door

I don't have to bear your chauvinism, I take you as a challenge, Everyday I learn what to ignore, And break free to live a bit more!
A woman is not meant to cook all day, Or clean and pop out babies just as you say, You are not a man, If you don't know to respect a woman!
You shout to make us fear, Expecting us to shed a tear, So we will totally disappear, And forget our dreams dear!
You have failed right there, You just put me on first gear! I am not willing to share a word, To you who will think it is absurd.
I will never shed another tear, Instead I will send above a prayer, To save you from your cruel thoughts, For a day will come when you realize what you lost!
You were a king of crafts, You definitely had skill, That does not mean, You can demean everyone else.
You have your own fears, Face them to find thyself, Do not trouble another, For you will never be respected ever!
Life is to enjoy, Why are you keen on planning to destroy, You will live in a void, That you will …

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Letters to My Daughter: You are way off your weight chart dear #MyFriendAlexa

Dear Ilakkiya,
I had initially thought of writing monthly letters to you, but I couldn't do it after your birthday. I was troubled with many things, most related to you. I feel so much better now and we are having a good time. So, I really thought you should know what happened and what has changed between us within these months.
In a post here, I mentioned about your weight gain issues. You are a bit off the mark from your birth weight. What this means is, you were 3 when you were born, so per the standard charts you are supposed to triple your weight on your first birthday. Actually you didn't and I didn't know why. I was bombarded with a thousand questions on why you hadn't gained any. Personally, I had not much idea on where I went wrong. I sat and saw your photos over time and you looked hale and healthy just as you do now. I really had no idea where things went wrong. It took me time to realize why you hadn't gained weight for close to 3 months straight.

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Why I Must Practice Mindfulness

I have read so much on mindfulness. It gives me a pleasant feeling when I read articles and posts related to it. I read so much yet I am worried about failure. I do it for a few days and once I fail, I lose hope and drop the idea. I am a short tempered person. I hardly follow schedules when it comes to personal routines. At times, I am inflexible. I stress over what isn't accomplished. See I am complaining on the opening note of my post. Don't think this is a random rant post. This isn't. This is a post where I am seriously considering practicing mindfulness.


For a person like me, who gets annoyed at small things, mindfulness and gratitude might be the key. At least from what I have read about it and also felt when I am truly thankful. Parenting has opened a whole new level of stress for me. It isn't really taking care of the little one, it is truly about handling the entire world of comments. I stress on this because I am a mother to a 15 month old and I am afraid th…

Stereotyped! #MyfriendAlexa

I never really knew, We had to cut through, To know where we stand, When it doesn't even look very grand, As a girl child, I am always expected to reconcile.
Maybe I lived in a dream, Without knowing everything was a scheme, When I became a graduate, I never knew I was a marriage bait, When I started working, I never knew it was just to save for my wedding!
I had dreams aplenty, Until my twenties, I rebelled for a long time, I was treated like I committed a crime, All that I need, Is to dream again and sow the seeds.
I must admit, That I was never unfit, But made to feel that way, So I will never have a say, I am here to have a go at it, And preach to others not to fall into that pit.
We the women, Are here to stay, Let our barriers break away, It is our time anyway, Let us teach our little girls to dream, And believe they are always supreme.
Come what may, We must stay With our heads held high And not one bit shy, For who we are, And take pride in coming so far.
We have every right, To question with deep sight, A sh…

Letter to My Blog #MyFriendAlexa

Hello My Dear Blog,

I will start with a Thank You! I owe you one and I haven't said that in years to you! I am sorry about that! Thanks to #Blogchatter for reminding me to do so. You are such a wonderful listener and you have borne me for almost a decade now. I started out writing only as a means to earn some money, but you have helped me emerge as a blogger, writer and a better reader. You have reflected my mind in every single occasion. Right from expressing my confusions as a person to an evolving parent, you have helped me express myself much better than I do in in conversations.

I have opened up very little with people in person except for few close friends. It's you who are helping me break my barriers one at a time and you are also helping me become a better person. I used to just rant around when I started you, but you are making me focus on my writing, on myself and everything around me. You have been an amazing platform to present my writing to the entire world, som…

You are You and I am Me! #MyFriendAlexa

Recent incidents helped me reflect a lot about myself and my life in general. Life has a way of bringing excitements and adventures followed by disappointments and regrets. Some adventures make us restless whereas some disappointments show us an open door. At times, I don't know which is a blessing - an adventure or a disappointment. I am still not the matured one to see the light at the end of the tunnel in everything that happens. Though I believe that everything happens for a reason, sometimes I need to sit down and reflect to find the reason.
Reflections happen everywhere. Not just when I sit still and meditate, though I do it very less. Not even the times when I sit down and decide to do nothing. It mostly happens when I sit to take a breath, but someone needs my help right away that moment. It is mostly when I call it a day, but someone calls me just to see if I slept so that they could have a "short" conversation. These are the times I wonder if I have a boundary…

August Gratitude List

This month has been a roller-coaster ride. I have pulled myself to sit down and cherish the moments as this month closes. August was the beginning of many new journeys and the end of a few things too. I will list them all down and I have entered a new phase of parenting from this week. You will know more about it in this post. I will start with celebrations and then enter into phases that is helping me strengthen myself.


Ilakkiya: What better celebration can I have than a 15 month old turning the house upside-down? Ilakkiya has started to run around and she has decided to burn down every single calorie. She has started to repeat single words and she loves imitating every single person. We also had our first fight this month. I am planning to write about it in a letter to her. She also did the regular phone conversation imitation using my phone with her cute babbles. She is slowly becoming daddy's girl and trust me, I love it because I get the free time. Maybe, I will think differe…